Thursday, 1 March 2012

Goodbye To A Blessing



Hello,

Many times we as Christians will declare that we are blessed but we seldom seem to give God the credit by telling what God has done for us. Many times when a church has a blessing time for people to share, the same few people share their blessings while most stay silent. Many would claim it is humility which glues them to their seat but the real reason many times is just ungratefulness. We don't think God has done anything too wonderful for us so we do not feel as though He deserves to be praised.

This week we have been discussing the blessings in our life since we moved to England. This was triggered by our having to let go of one of those blessings. In England, the houses are very small compared to the States. The average home is a three bedroom and has 986 sq feet total. This leads to small kitchens and smaller appliances. Most homes here have an under the counter refrigerator. There is not room in the kitchen for a stand up model much less an American size unit. There was a time in the first few years we were here and 3 of the 5 children were in their teens that we had three small fridges. One for food and two for milk. We still ended up going to the grocery store several times a week.
In 2005, when we returned from our first furlough, we found a house that had a decent sized kitchen. Our thoughts turned to a large fridge that would actually be in the kitchen. Upon pricing the behemoths, we decided we could make do with a used smaller unit. Then one day at an auction, Kent saw a side-by-side American fridge. It was in good shape and even had ice and water in the door. It was only a few years old and had retailed for close to $2,000 when new here. Kent bid 10 pounds, someone bid 15 and Kent countered with 20. That was it. No one else bid because no one else had room for it. It cost more to rent a trailer to get the fridge home than the fridge cost. (20 pounds at the time was around $38) Finally a fridge big enough for the family . We were a single fridge family unit once again. English people would come to our house and marvel at the size and at the features. Most went away thinking what rich people these Americans are. When we left for furlough in Dec 2010, the fridge went into storage. Upon returning we found a house but it did not have room for the large fridge in the kitchen or anywhere else in fact. We decided to give it to another missionary but thought it best to test it beforehand. Nothing, it does nothing. Something happened while in storage or transport. So the other day, Davis and Kent loaded it up and took it to the tip (dump). Sad day it was. We really liked that thing but we had a great time that night recounting just how good God was to give us that fridge for 6 years and for only $38. That is worth telling folks about how good God takes cares of his children!

Sunday, 26 February 2012

London Pics


Just a few pics of our sojourn to London























Olympic Stadium





















Kent and Deidra before the half-marathon just outside of London at Dorney Lake, sight of the Olymopic rowing events.




























































Wednesday, 22 February 2012

What Takes So Long?

Hello,

One of the things a family must, must, must get used to when they go to the mission field is that everything will take longer than what you expect. Until you spend time outside her borders you consider it normal and mundane but the United States is the capital of convenience. Things that should take just a few minutes can often occupy several hours, days or stretch into weeks. To apply for a children's passport in the US is not especially hard. A few photos, a trip to the post office and then wait for the postman to bring you the new passport in a few weeks. Easy peasey! To apply for or renew a passport for a child under 16 while outside the US, you must physically present the child with both parents to the US Embassy. No biggy if you live close but for us the embassy is in London which is about a 5 hour drive and then a 1 hr subway ride into town and then a 20 minute walk to the Embassy. You cannot just walk up to the Embassy, you must make an appointment well in advance. Then you must have the proper size, color and style of photo which is different for almost every country of the world. Most British photo shops in our area just looked at us with a blank stare when we inquired about US standard pictures so we had to find one in London.
So, we booked our appointments for Davis and Deidra. The only ones available were on a Friday morning at 8:15AM. This meant either leaving Cornwall at midnight and driving up to London or going the day before and spending the night. We opted for spending the night. Now we have to give our government credit, the US Embassy in London is in a nice area of town. The cheapest hotel we could find for our family was well over our usual budget but we needed to be within walking distance of the Embassy. So we drive up the day before, get the photos made, check into the hotel, took the family to see the Olympic Park and then bedded down for the night. Off to the Embassy for the appointment and two hours later we walked out several hundred dollars lighter and a promise of passports in the next month. It was then we faced a 20 minute walk to the tube, an hour tube ride to the car and a 5 hour drive home. Two entire days spent doing what should/could have been 10 minutes filling out the form and then dropping by the post office.
That about sums up life on the mission field and also in our spiritual lives. Things that should be so simple often prove to be the lingering projects in our life.

Tuesday, 31 January 2012

Only God....



Hello,

About two years ago we found ourselves needing a run around car. We had a large van that the 7 of us and some luggage could fit into but it was not the best of fuel mileage. I spoke to our mechanic and asked him what car I should get. Andrew said to buy an old BMW diesel 4 door. They are reliable,parts are available and they run forever. A few weeks of bidding on Ebay and we bought a 1994 5 series sedan with a 2.5 liter diesel engine for right at $800. Yes, $800. BMW are not the status cars here they are in the states and the car was 15 years old with 145,000 miles. We drove the car for 14 months literally all over this island and only had to have the oil changed. When we left last December for furlough we were quite sad to have to sell the car as it was reliable, economical and fun to drive. We ended up selling it for $1,500 to a diesel mechanic. Fast forward 14 months....we are back in England and will be needing a car in a few months and so Kent in looking on Ebay one night and guess what he sees? You are correct, he sees the old BMW for sale on Ebay. To shorten the story, we ended up buying the car back for $700. Bought it for $800, sold it for $1,500, bought it back for $700. Do the math, the car is now free. But it gets better. During the time the mechanic had the car he repaired or replaced a number of items on the car. Well over $2,000 worth of parts were installed and who knows how many hours of labour.
So, we have our old car back way better than ever and all thanks to God and his provision.

Monday, 9 January 2012

Moving







Hello,

We are writing from our new home. I am sitting at my desk looking out the window at the Anglican church in our little village. What makes it special is the belltower was constructed in the 15th century and the church still retains some of its medieval stained glass. Most medieval stained glass in England was destroyed during the Reformation as "images of God" were destroyed by the Protestants.

They say that moving is one of the most stressful events that transpires in a persons life. You would think that after 16 or 17 moves in our life we would be accustomed to it. We are blaming the struggles of the last 30 days on old age. With only 8 hours of sunlight a day, rain and hail, and most of our built in labor force having relocated to America it made for a long week of moving our things from the various storage locations to the house. You never really miss your sons who have left home until it is time to move the heavy stuff.
We are in and most of the boxes have been unpacked. The three week wait for internet has ended and we have stopped driving to our old place out of habit. After a year of being in limbo it is nice to be surrounded by our things again.

We have been blessed to have had a number of nice houses to live in during our tenure here in Cornwall. We pray we never grow ungrateful.

Our new address:

Taey Sekul
St. Neot, Liskeard
England
PL14 6NG

Thursday, 1 December 2011

Big Steps

Hello,

The Lord has blessed us these past few weeks. We were able to find a nice house at a very reasonable (for England) price. The irony is that the house is right next door to a house we had previously rented back in 2003-2005. The owners are doing a few things and we will be able to move in the week of the 12th. It is in a village a few miles outside of Liskeard and it is about a 15 minute drive into town. Does not seem much in American culture but that is a fair drive here. Petrol is a bit less than $9.00/gallon so we will need to get better at consolidating trips.

Part of living in a village and not in town are the occurrences of both adults needing a car to go different ways. We have a car that was given to us last year that we can use until June but we have been looking for another vehicle for Andrea to drive. After three weeks of looking we felt led to buy a 97 Accord. Less than 100,000, new tyres and a brand new safety inspection made it a perfect match for what we were after. We got a great price and so Andrea is mobile again.

We would ask for prayer as we need to find some items for the new house. It always seems to work better when you follow the Lord's guidance. It usually saves you money as well.

Tuesday, 22 November 2011

Tie Up Some Loose Ends

Hello,
 
  Although we do not get many questions here at the blog, we have had a few that we can answer.

The bathroom.  In a few posts from the summer we displayed pictures of a bathroom renovation we were attempting on the boys house in Oklahoma. We would be out for 4-6 weeks on the road and then work on the bathroom for the week or so we were hanging out in OKC to "rest". We ended up tearing it down to the studs and floorboards and rebuilding from there. You might remember this picture..









It was a mad rush to the finish to complete the bath before we returned to England and we almost made it. It is quite functional but just needs a few cosmetic touches. Something to do on our next furlough. Here are a few pics of the finished room.
Another question we can answer is concerning our anniversary. This year Andrea and Kent celebrated their 25th anniversary. Way back on the honeymoon in 1986, Kent had promised Andrea that he would take her to Hawaii for their 25th. However, on their actual anniversary (Aug 16th) they were in the middle of a trip to the East coast reporting to some churches.  Soooooooo.....they crammed a trip in right at the end of their furlough. Thanks to some airline vouchers that were about to expire and some anniversary gift money, they were able to make it happen.  A few pics.